This tips has been immensely useful to my friends Sapilo, Jordy, David, Alex, Innocence, Dayo, Suleiman Abdullahi and it prompted me to share to my readers.
People often think having money is the only way to get any woman, that has been proven beyond reasonable doubts to be false, as even with all your money, fine face or six pacs, a woman could still cheat if she sees a man who catches her fancy. You don't need to be super rich or have six pacs to get any girl in the world neither do you need to be super handsome to get that girl you have been secretly crushing on.
Here are very simple but effectively tips on how to get any girl you want.
Note: Excessive use of this tips could make you successfully become a player.
1. Be Real:- No faking. No borrowing of clothes, car, phone or blinks to please her. Borrowing things would automatically lead you to borrowing more things to keep trying to impress her. Nobody likes that, not her and not even you.
2. Have Self Confidence:- Self confidence is one of the most important criteria a man needs to succeed in life and in the mission of getting the woman he wants. Confidence is like an aura, it envelopes the arena you are in. Be confident, cheerful and charismatic around her (don't wear a pale or sad face like someone begging for money or food around her). Every woman hates a man who isn't confident, they perceive such men as weaklings.
However, do not mistake pride for self confidence. You don't have to be proud or boastful to show you are confident.
3. Be Knowledgeable:- Been knowledgeable isn't saying you should know how to speak volumeneous and grammatical words like Hon. Patrick or begin to twist your tongue trying to speak British English, nor am I saying you should know everything!
This is simple, just know something about most things. Know a little about politics, a little about entertainment, a little about fashion, a little about movies etc. Women fancy men who sound knowledgeable or intelligent. She automatically gets glued when you are chatting or talking to her cos she learns something everytime you talk.
4. Don't Be Readily Available:- You are always calling her phone six times a day, sending her messages four times a day and always asking when she would visit you or trying to visit her. Nah!!!! too much of that could be a real turn off and would make her despise you even more.
For a start one call a day is perfect. Don't be in a hurry to visit her or ask for a visit till the friendship is defined.
5. Less Compliments:- You don't have to compliment a woman ten times in a day about her beauty before she gets it. Remember! You are still trying to make her like you, don't make her become irritated by your frequent compliments.
Women naturally get irritated by incessant compliments from a toaster. One or two compliments once in a while is enough.
6. Dress Well:- You mustn't dress like Wizkid or Davidoo or wear all Gucci like Hush puppy, but in your own little way dress well, neat and smart often.
7. Always Smell Nice:- Always smell nice!!!! I repeat always smell nice!!! because you don't know when you might bump into the woman you are crushing on. Women love men who smell nice. Wear sweet colognes and have a good breath as often as possible. This doesn't require much expenses it's basic hygiene.
8. Become Unpredictable:- Don't be like the conventional guy or a "churchy" guy whose next action are easily predicted by even a blind person. Learn to become unpredictable.
By been unpredictable am not saying you should become awfully unpredictable and start acting weird or mysterious like an Herbalist, No! But be the kind of guy who she can't really tell his next move.
9. Be Witty But Don't Try To Be "Toooo Funny":- This is one of the greatest mistakes men often make when trying to get noticed by their crush. Some men in a bid to win a woman's heart would resort to cracking jokes and always wanting to make her smile, that's nice though but been comic isn't for everyone just as comedy isn't for everybody. Trying to be too funny could make you sound really awful.
Crack the little joke you can and don't try to force it. If she's into you, your little jokes will crack her up.
10. When With Her Don't Make Yourself The Center Of The Discussion:- When you finally get the chance to be with her don't make yourself the center of the discussion. Making yourself the center of the discussion when with her would easily perceive you as been proud and egoistic.
Talk about her and about her dreams, her ambition, her goals and her visions. Talk about life, entertainment and funny moments.