Top 10 Qualities Women Find Unattractive In men

 

There are certain qualities we look out for in men and there are also some qualities that could make us purke in disgust. 

Here are some qualities we find unattractive in men:

1. Men with Ambition Imbalances:

We love a purpose-driven man. We are insanely attracted to men that work hard, have a vision and are actively trying to achieve that vision; however, if we get the sense that a man would stab us dead and step over our cold body to get to the top, we can’t take him too seriously. Ambition is a necessary spice of life, but it’s not the entire meal. Savor relaxation, savor balance, and savor us.

2. Men who aren’t funny:

We will never find a man that can’t make us laugh attractive. We also really hate dealing with men who crack corny jokes. We have to pretend to laugh, this encourages the man to keep trying, and it’s generally a bad time for everyone involved. Laughter may seem silly, but it’s a necessity for us. Life is too short and we can be far too serious. Laughter reminds us to chill out.

3. The Inauthentic Nice Guy:

We love genuinely nice people: they smile, they are attentive, and they make the world a better place. That said, the inauthentic nice guy is super unattractive. His kindness is rooted in a lack of self-worth, a need to please EVERYONE at the expense of his own happiness. This man, in a relationship, is a pushover. We are not asking to date a complete asshole, but healthy boundaries are part of being an adult. Also, a lack authenticity of any sort is unattractive for us.

4. Men who suffer from “little man syndrome”:

We can’t deal with men who are always trying to compensate for their stature. Relax. Put your arms down. Stop talking about the time you stomped out a dude twice your height. Own your size. Own all of your flaws for that matter. Good things can come in small packages, and we are open to accepting all packages, as long as their good enough (pun intended).

5. Men who can’t defend themselves:

Call it carnal, call it archaic, but if a man can’t defend himself, we can’t take him seriously. We don’t ever want to be with a man who goes around picking fights. EVER! (Seriously, we’re too old, and dudes that pick fights are extremely unattractive).

6. Men who only look fly with a hat (or other items of clothing) on:

We’ve all been deceived by a man who was gorgeous with his hat on, but looked crazy when he took it off. Just like men appreciate natural beauty. We appreciate a man who is sexy without covering half of his face.

7. Men who don’t care about their health:

We are not perfect, We don’t exercise much so we are not expecting to date a man who is the pinnacle of health, but if a man has beer for breakfast and cigarettes for lunch, there’s a strong chance we might be repulsed by him.

8. Cheap Men:

Let me be clear, I understand the importance of budgeting and frugality. Often times cheap men aren’t just skimping on money, they are often cheap with their time, cheap with their emotions, and cheap with their level of creativity. Cheap men are often holding back all of their resources for some future plan. We are perfectly content if our date includes a beautiful park, cheap wine, and my favorite delights; however, more often than not, cheap men don’t take the steps required to create ambiance or luxury thru experience. They think more about their money than they do about us. So, if we’re standing at the dollar pizza spot

and sharing a slice and a soda, it’s not about the money at that point. It’s about how your perceived lack keeps you from seeing more interesting possibilities in life.

9. Men who smell funny:

Man-scent can be intoxicating. It can drive us to wear a t-shirt that doesn’t belong to us just to inhale and relive the memory. Basically, a good man scent turns us into a creeper. Good smells evoke good feelings, but bad smells? We can’t take men who smell funny seriously. If his breath smells like coffee and hard boiled eggs, if he doesn’t use deodorant regularly, thinks it’s appropriate to wear Axe, his jeans smell like they need to be washed, or his sweat smells like yesterday’s Happy Hour session, we really can’t deal that. We have to like the way you smell. Point blank.

10. High-maintenance men:

We love a well-dressed man, but if vanity impedes on our desire to explore and experience new things, we just aren't compatible.